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Monday, March 21, 2011

Back to Basics: Forgiving those who "wrong" you... A Blog from The SEQ

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Ahh so we're back to basics. With new followers, some of you have not been privy to Dawn The Self Esteem Queen™ and how I operate so I am going to introduce myself to my new followers and give a re-introduction to those of you who do not remember… It is no secret that God uses me on a constant basis. My endless blessings are a testament to this, my awards and accolades are a testament to this, and my gratification when educated and humbled simultaneously by God give me what I call "Godfirmation" that I am on the right path.

I have learned that when you are on this path, it is almost a certainty that there will be those who come and try to cloud your shine. I am used to it. I know people who I have helped tirelessly with my time, money, vehicle, expertise, etc...only for them to blaspheme my name in the end. It takes a strong woman to walk away from the drama and it takes a strong woman to realize that someone else’s anger, or denial of such, is merely a personal problem that has nothing to do with me.


How I learned to understand forgiveness better
Someone once gave me a book called
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz and it changed my life while helping me to see the path to forgiveness on a larger scale


For those of you who have not read this book, it would really behoove you to take a look. In this powerful book that has remained on The New York Times Bestseller List for over eight years, Don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. When we are ready to change these agreements, there are four deceptively simple, yet powerful agreements that we can adopt as guiding principles. The Four Agreements® offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.

• BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

• DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

• DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

• ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

In a World full of CHAOS I'd be remiss to not let you know to HOLD ON - POSSIBILITIES EXIST™
I love you, and there's absolutely, positively, nothin you can do about it!!!


© 2009-2011 Dawn The Self-Esteem Queen™ All rights reserved. H.O.P.E (Hold on, Possibilities Exist) is a Registered Trademark for SEQ International, LLC. All rights reserved. 

ABOUT THE AUTHOR - With a knack for bouncing back when faced with the most difficult adversity, Dawn The Self Esteem Queen™ has quickly become known for her ability to get people out the “victim” mindset immediately. An Internationally Recognized Rescuer of Teenage Prostitutes and Runaways, In Demand Speaker, Author, Mentor and Spiritual Life Coach, Dawn “The SEQ” uses her experience with trials to mentor, minister, and coach people all over the World. One of today’s leading experts on Teen Mentoring, Self-Esteem Enhancement, and Servant Leadership, Dawn’s mission in life is to teach individuals how to BE BETTER Human Beings. 


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